tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-532699250916531920.post1468532483637745073..comments2023-06-26T08:51:19.062-07:00Comments on California Dreamin' Squirrel: NaBloPoMo - Day 28 - First Thanksgiving TYOFWMCal Dream Squirrelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13484415602688685224noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-532699250916531920.post-43134729540706813152019-12-04T13:48:48.192-08:002019-12-04T13:48:48.192-08:00All these first without a loved one are so very ha...All these first without a loved one are so very hard. I've been missing my big brother lately, unexpectedly more now than I did the first month after he died. My heart goes out to you. {hugs}Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08506026496063245730noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-532699250916531920.post-86223737918537361582019-11-28T14:13:07.847-08:002019-11-28T14:13:07.847-08:00Don't dwell on what you should be doing today....Don't dwell on what you should be doing today. You are still grieving. Its okay not to do those things. It is okay not to even do the traditions you did in the past. It is just okay to just be today and stay in pajamas. When my mom died back in 2006 right before Christmas, I couldn't put up a Christmas tree so we didn't have one. Just allow yourself the memories and the tears. <br /><br />bettybettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06323135450742337670noreply@blogger.com